Dodge all you want man. : ) I didn't see it that way.
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She knows he's a problem too, so she's held off moving away to be with this cretin. As she's termed it more than once, that would "ruin her life".
So she's in a quandry about the OM.
She's in a quandry about me too. She doesn't want to be married to me. But she doesn't want me out of her life.
It's a four-way draw on her, and it shows. She's in lousy shape emotionally and physically. I've been afraid more than once that she'll end up in the hospital.
Mine said the same thing. "it would not be good (to be with OM for long term)"
She didn't want to be married to me. She did; she didn't.
Mine ended up in hospital with mysterious symptoms unexplained...got better though. Stress or vodoo...dunno
Walking the same/similar path I am a little bit ahead of you. If you can do it, I can say that my W is doing well. I know I am. I can say that it has been worth it. 'We' are doing pretty good now, even though I am tired and still only take each time we are together for what it is, time together for that period of time. I do not look down the road, or plan on it.
jackthreebeans at yahoo dot com anytime you want to talk, ok man?
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 02/09/0708:33 PM.
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