Another pleasant update.

She's off to see the wonderful wizard of OM.

Here's a timeline from "no contact with OM, working on marriage for real now" to "following my heart":

Week 1: "Boy, I would have ruined my life with him. I can't imagine a single day without you."

Week 2: "We should find a GOOD marriage counseler"

End of week 2: (after admitting contact with OM): "I know I made a promise - I didn't think this was any big thing."

Week 3: Mon: "EA was PA" Fri: I can't be married to you."

Week 4: "I'm going away to do something I have to do"

(well, wonder what that is?)

In between: I'm growing more and more sick of all this. How do you detach from your own anger at being taken for granted?