Sorry to hear you are still struggling with the ML issue. I know how you feel when you say you want to feel loved and wanted, that has always been my problem. But if i remember correctly your H has said that he still loves you and always has. Just keep reminding yourself that - my H has been brutally honest about how he doesn't love me so you really are very lucky. Jenjam advised me to read up thought stopping in DR which has helped me alot, you have probably already tried that though. Apart from cold showers i'm not sure what else to suggest!!! Maybe try and look at it in a more comical way. When you feel the urge to pounce on him and rip his clothes off just imagine it as a sitcom or something. Anything to try and put a smile on your face rather than become frustrated and upset - worth a try!!!
You are doing so well with reaching your goals. I haven't really set any but i think i should. Putting the wedding ring back on is a massive leap forward, i definately think that will be one of mine. What other goals have you set?
I love reading your thread as are sitch are almost the same and you have been given some really good advice which i have tried out aswell. Keep up the good work, you have got this far on your own and your H and son will be so proud of you. You have saved your marriage, it just needs a little bit of fine tuning now so don't give up.
