Good idea for V day. I know what you mean about crying your eyes out here, but I usually feel better. This is new for me too. You asked earlier if anybody had a S in IC. I do. The thing with my H though is that he's "done" with me and our M. He started seening his C (secretly) so he could figure out how to tell me. He didn't, bring it up that is, you can see my sitch for details. Like you I would love to be a fly on the wall, but H doesn't talk about it and I don't ask. Sounds like your doing good (even though it doesn't feel that way). Have a good weekend.