They will eventually look at what they are doing. Whether or not they actually admit it to anyone (especially us) is a whole other story.

It will take time (like "they" say). I don't know if her, or your, feelings will ever change that is something only you will know. The only thing I do know is only YOU will know when you have had enough. I thought my "enough" time would have come long before now but I am still hanging in there. However, I do think it is close to throwing in the towel. I am exhausted and I just can't fight anymore. Unless my H actully starts making some serious effort, what ever effort I have left will diminish pretty quick here.

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)