Hey Guys
Am doing OK.. have accepted and want D. Have let go of H. Still some pain...but its time to move on for now. The depth of the lies and betrayal and spending are starting to sink in....and this is the tip of the iceberg. I have asked him to stay away accept for his financial obligations to us. maybe in 2 or 3 three years if he exits the fog......who knows?


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest