I feel like a doormat. No he is not having a midlife crisis, he has done this numerous times. This isn't the first time he has left. He is only 33 years old.He has talked about all the reasons he has left, the house disorganized, not clean enough,not enough meals yadda, yadda, yadda.Every time things are not to his liking he splits...Says he loves me, always has, just can't live this way? Just says he'll be home after vacation. No reason why he decides now, he wants to come home.His reasons for leaving are always the same, money,house being disorganized, now it's that he wants to spend time with certain friends etc.. Immaturity or what? I have worked on the isuues he has presented, but he will find something else...I presume I may be in the wrong board, maybe back to seperated?