Thank you for your insight! Every bit helps and I really appreciate it.
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You live in the same house and he does not speak to you? That sounds horrible
It is horrible. But have gotten use to it. H is barely home. He travels for long periods of time (3 months each time to China) Since the bomb in July, he left for China again in August (3 months again). Came back in November and he was never able to talk or look at me again. He has basically been emotionless towards me. I was a bit suprised when I got his email because it was the first time he expressed any type of emotiion. And for the last few days, I noticed he looks at me as if he has something to say. Boy, I haven't seen that for such a long time.
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ps what does it mean is ow is in Asia? That caught my attention and looking through your old thread I couldn't find out what you meant.
Looking through my old thread would not give you any information about OW because I just found out about OW 2 weeks ago. She's in China, works in the same company. She's young only 24. They have been together for over a year. I guess I carried hope and thought that he had his own reasons for walking away. I trully believed him when he said there was no OW. I trusted him whole heartedly and was betrayed the second time. How nieve can I be? But somehow finding out about OW chnaged me. I blamed myself everyday for all this time. As soon as I found out about OW I made a shift. For some reason, I felt like a ton has been lifted off my shoulder. And since that day, I can feel myself detaching from him almost completely. I mean, there are moments that I am sad but I no longer cry. I'm scared that I'm letting go too much.
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His lawyer may have put him up to it in an attempt to negate any prior agreement that was favorable to you.
As for the email, I also think that this is what he is trying to do. I completely agree with you! He is not my resposibility anymore. I love him dearly, but I am not going to sacrafice my kids well being for him.
