Quick Question - Strange Email from XW

[Confused_in_AZ]

Sorry that I have not been able to update you all. I have been extremely busy with work (a good thing). I did ask her out but she was heading out of town last weekend for work. Apparently has worked the past three weekends, has this one off, and then works the following three.

We are going to get together on Sunday for at least dinner if not dinner and a movie. "I really would like to catch up" was her exact words. Not sure what there might be to catch up on since I just saw her a week ago or so but hey, will take what I can get.

This morning got a text from XW at 7am telling me that my future sister-in-law was on the local news. The station was doing a special on her job and she was on tv. From what I remember, she didn't even really like her so kind of suprised that she did that. But again, know it was a nice thing.

Will see what else happens after Sunday. Should be intersting. Debating how it all should end though. I am sure that the "do I kiss you or not" situation will come up again. Will play that one by ear.

And thank you for all of your responses. I completely understand that we should not have to guess what they are thinking. My XW personally believes (or at least did) that a partner should "know" what she is thinking. I have never subscribed to this theory and it is one that drives me nuts. I will never go that route again. Promise. That is why I ended my relationship with a woman I have been seeing for several months. That amoung other issues, including not being able to meet or attempt to meet my personal needs is the reasoning behind that.

Better to be happy, less stressed and richer than to be with someone where you have no idea where you stand, what they think and can't make up their mind.