Working hours contributed in a BIG way to my sitch....H on night shift Wed-Thurs-Fri-Sat night...so no weekend, plus me, a workaholic wife who was only physically present at home before 9pm after having a baby (sometimes wouldn't be home before midnight before getting pregnant)...recipe for disaster. I will never repeat that and work will never come first in my life again. And my H knows that I am willing to (HAVE already!) altered my schedule. Just hope it's enough to save things and hope he will try and change his too so we have weekends together if he decides to come home.
Sometimes we don't know how important people are to us until they are no longer there.
Me 36 ring on H 41 ring off S2 Together since 1992 Married: 2000 Bomb Aug 06 H moved out Oct 06 (and straight in with OW)
