Hey there, you are completely on the right path, your job is to take care of yourself and the children. It is not your job to do the math or to figure out his problems any longer. He made his choice. Don't let him intimidate you. Personally I wouldn't respond to that email at all. It's just not your problem. You should tell your lawyer about this communication though. His lawyer may have put him up to it in an attempt to negate any prior agreement that was favorable to you. Be very careful about this sort of communication right now.
Oh and to answer an earlier question, many departing spouses hide money. It's standard operating procedure for a lot of them. If you have these concerns you should also mention them to your lawyer.
You live in the same house and he does not speak to you? That sounds horrible.
I don't keep up with many of the stories here but caught your thread this evening. Hope this helps a bit. Good luck. Wonder
ps what does it mean is ow is in Asia? That caught my attention and looking through your old thread I couldn't find out what you meant. Thx. W.
