I'm new here and need help

[hannahsmom]

wow I am so glad I posted
Here are some more details - he is someone who has struggled with depression in the past - we have been drifting apart living our busy lives like most people - he works nights - I work days for last 6 years
He is a devoted and wonderful father - he has acknowledged that he thinks we are good parents

I think alon with the obvious age factor concerning MLC ( he'll be fifty soon ) he has started to lose his hair and also is going to the gym all the time
I took a cue from him and have lost 15 lbs going to the gym also - with girlfriends - he wants to be left alone going to the gym
one minute is is talking about next year when we do teh kitchen over - calling me on my cell for no reason to tell me he likes something I did around the house etc - the next minute he is barely speaking to me
I am finding the rollercoaster ride unbearable some days - but yes I have resolve to be in it for the long haul - I am just so afraid these sounsling sessions hes doing are going to give him permission to abandon this marriage
you have already helped me - I will be coming here for help - I thank you all so much