I work out everyday at the gym. I have not missed a day since the day she dropped the bomb. (Oct 15, 2006) I did huge 180's and continue to live up to them. We are getting along great. Better then we have in years. 2 nights a week I am out doing my own thing and my wife is home. The other 3 week nights we do things together (Dancing lessons, language class, and usually dinner or a movie. I'm not kidding, I am enjoying our time together more now then i have in at least 10 years. I think she is too. The problem is, I can't stand living without a sexlife and It makes it hard for me to believe she likes it any better. She is the one that says she is not ready yet, to resume any physical activity beyond a kiss goodnight, and a hug or two. Meanwhile she wears undergarments, that make me crazy all of the time. She seems so calm, relaxed and comfortable, it just seems to me that she is getting it somewhere, and I know it is not from me. Sorry to be so crass, but I friggen going nuts over this. I am a normal, healthy adult male and it is not normal for me to live like a monk for 3 and 1/2 months.
