I have even had thoughts of cutting those shoes to pieces and mailing them to her !! I know it sounds like I am a big nut case but I feel I am entitled to feel the things I feel and do whatever necessary to make me feel better!! I still have that picture of "her"...just haven't been able to bring myself to do something with it. H doesn't know I still have it (also saved some of the letters she sent him too).Think at the time I was hanging on to some evidence in case I needed it..then just put it all away and tried to forget about it. The other letters,picture and cards I took great pleasure in putting through the paper shredder (did tell H I did that...he didn't seem to care)!! I almost stuffed all the shreds in an envelpoe and mailed them to "her" but decided not to waste good stamps !!
For now I will leave the shoes where they are....buried in the back of the closet. If he ever brings them out to wear again I may decided to do something drastic !! It feels good to be able to joke and laugh about it even when I feel like an idiot!! It feels good to know that so many of you understand and I can tell you anything without you making me feel like I have lost my mind!! THANKS!!!! PAT