Mattie: i enjoy too much this post because you talk a lot about my own experience... my h return home after an affair with a too much young girl (25 and my h is 40)... i am really convince she was not the cause but a sympton... at first she insist calling him, sending him mails, but right now i think she is not around... but the last months i had felt really bad, returning to past memories about them... the travel they made, his last birthday, christmass time... i dream a lot about this when i sleep... although i am working a lot trying to let that back, do you think this is normal...?!!... is the common heal process i need to pass...?!!... I never talk with him about OW... how she was...?... what they did...?... bc i dont want her between our talks or in our R... but sometimes i think a lot if she still call him... Is this normal...?!!... will this emotional thinking go away someday...?!!...
