H called on the way home and told me he stopped to look at a bike he was interested in but it was too small. I said gee maybe it will fit me, he asked are you really ready to buckle down and hit the trails hard, I said no, but maybe in a couple months.... I thought we were just talking. H got all bent out of shape, he felt I was making something that he was interested in all about me. Now this is the first I have heard of the bike, and I don't want or need a new bike. I thought I was making conversation, but he totally took this as me honing in and not letting him be an individual. I tried to explain that I was just making conversation, but he just seemed so pissy about the whole thing. Then he brought up that he wanted a digital camera but knew if he bought one I would get mad, I said well it would hurt my feelings if you got a new camera when you know that I have been wanting a new camera. H didn't understand that at all, I tried to explain, but all he could hear was he couldn't have something if I wanted the same thing, mine had to be better, I don't how to avoid this type of thing. I don't have to have better than him, and I do want him to have experiences of his own, although that is all he seems interested in right now his stuff on his own, and nothing with me. He did admit that he sees I am trying but ..... just feels so backwards right now.
Me 41 H 42 DD 11 DS 8 M 18 bomb 8/3/06 separating 9/18/08
