My W "cannot" be married to be. But nevertheless, she wants me in her life "forever" and cannot even think about living as far away as another state.
This would be an interesting scenario, as I don't think that I could comfortably live downwind of the OM she is contemplating as her next life partner.
Is this vacillation on her part?
Or is it just nostalgia, fear, or pity masquerading as real love and attachment?
Ok, Ok, I'm supposed to be detaching. But that doesn't speak against trying to figure out what is up. Even if I should "believe none of what I hear and half of what I see"...
