Am I piecing? I am sooooo confused

[Heywyre]

Thank LN for the post - it is nice to hear from those that are a little further along than I am, just to get some perspective as to what I can expect (maybe?)

I try to understand where my H is coming from. I know he has a lot of issues, and ones he is uncomfortable with, but I also know that he wants to change (and that is a BIG plus going for us) but doesn't know how. Hopefully with the help of the C we will be able to do that together. At least he is willing to go, I know a lot of others on here can't get their S to cooperate in that department. It seems the latest development in our situation is the C is going to be looking into the possibility of my H suffering from PTS (post traumatic stress) from an accident we were in 3½ years ago - which sent him into an extremely deep depression (ending with the second A). C has talked about using CBT (cognitive behaviour therapy) which basically changes their way of thinking - something the C has said H needs because of some of the other issues he is dealing with aside from the A (adoption, depression etc)

Here's hoping we have found some type of relief, I am getting exhausted and don't know how much longer I can hold on here