Can my marriage be saved?

[Rosy_Times]

I know it seems hopeless but let me ask you one thing. Can you trust him right now? If not, then don't try. I can tell you one of our biggest mistakes was getting back together too soon after my H cheated on me. He as my fiance then though but it didn't matter. I pursued him and I think he came back to me out of guilt or so he says now.
Try and keep it calm and cool between you and him tonight. Listen and let him do all the talking. Who initiated the meeting? Validate everything he says; he's feelings, etc. Don't get angry or cry or anything. Try your best to act emotionless. You have to pull apart from that but it is so hard I know. Make this into the talk you guys never had before so that you walk away from it feeling closer than ever. If you don't, it will do more harm than good. good luck and keep me updated!