4ever, I'm so happy to hear that things went well when he came home! Sounds like the little bit of time apart has given him a chance to clear his head somewhat.
Probably a good thing you didn't say ILY. It'll probably be tough to know when the time is right to test the waters and say it again, (but with any luck, he'll beat you to it ). One of my H's complaints was that I didn't say ILY much. I pointed out that just because I didn't say it doesn't mean I didn't show it, and listed off little things I used to do which were my way of saying ILY without actually saying the words. So saying the words more would actually be a 180 for me, but saying the words is also very bad DBing, and he sure as hell doesn't wanna hear that from me at this point in time.
Me:30 H:30 Together:10yr H left:Oct3'06,couple weeks before 5th wed anniv. No Kids OW bomb:Jan19'07 My thread: He filed.
Sounds like the little bit of time apart has given him a chance to clear his head somewhat.
). One of my H's complaints was that I didn't say ILY much. I pointed out that just because I didn't say it doesn't mean I didn't show it, and listed off little things I used to do which were my way of saying ILY without actually saying the words. So saying the words more would actually be a 180 for me, but saying the words is also very bad DBing, and he sure as hell doesn't wanna hear that from me at this point in time.
