Thanks AT. I know I have to, and for the most part it is easy because things really are pretty good. W will not talk about R or D, but will talk about anything else. Kids, sports, news, weather, new job. She has not said anything about moving, but just recently got a job so I imagine moving out will be next.
She just plays her cards so close to her vest, always has. I really don't know what is going on but have come to the conclusion that it really doesn't matter, there is nothing I can do about it anyway.
I keep getting this nagging feeling that the real 180 would be to "fight" about all this. For 26 years we have almost never had a fight. It is not because one of us always gave in,(though I probably did more then her)rather we just didn't have that much conflict that I knew of. I am not acting much different then I ever have. I don't know, just thinking.
81388 Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,
"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis
