Hi IHJ Wasn't sure if you were directing that at me or MJ but figured I'd comment.
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I have noticed that my H seems to do something hurtful towards me, and the resultant guilt he feels makes him want to make up for this, which drives his sexuality. IOw, it goes like this: Hurt IHJ...feel bad...want to make up for it...feel sexual.
Not in my case. He'd want to make up for it but not in a sexual way. Can't relate to that one. At least not until the final "hurt LFL" bomb of him leaving. Not the best tactic on his part but in the end we both reached our "crucible" in a sense and have been able to build from there. It's true that sometimes you need to hit rock bottom before you can start climbing again.
