You did well with the dinner date. This is where you want to start getting to know each other again. Next time, just say thanks and good night. The rest of what you communicated can easily be seen as pressure by your H. You are very fortunate to be able to interact with him like this. These are fantastic oppotunities to let your PMA shine. All of the DB processes can be implemented when you are together. The actions he sees from you will make the memory of what a good time you had.
Just enjoy the moment. Have fun! He knows how you feel about the M. You've made the invitation, let him see the new you and make the decision to recommit when he is ready. Get the 6 month or any other time frame out of your head. It is an expectation. Just let things happen as you DB.
You're doing well, develop patience and you will be rewarded.
