Been a little lost for a while. Life is difficult right now but W is growing and doing the work.
It sounds like you have found the right direction to go. It also sounds like your W is willing to fill it the gaps when you check out. Come on man, you are the rock star here, you know whats up. You know what to focus on, and how to do it. Pick your @$$ up and keep walking forward, you know you can do it. The making her happy stuff is great true, but I look at it and take it as far as how to act in my everyday life, there are somethings in the newsletters I would never do in any R, happy or not. You have to pick and choose what you emulate from there, or these boards, in books or anything. The fact doesn't change though, she married Frank. It's OK to be a giver and a fixer I don't think that she is going to be the type of person that lets you control her, not that you would want to, but it is easy to fall into..... I was there and you are right, it is easy to lose yourself... But only if you let yourself, or you let your partner.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
