Oh no! AH- Yes, I'm doing well, and he's going to miss out on a great life. But I'm not. And no, it's not mean, and not spiteful. I still have lots of love for him. He just doesn't want it, so I'm giving it to myself :-). You can't pick and choose. I'm not his buddy. And I will certainly not facilitate the stupidest thing he's ever done with his life. But that's just it, it's his life. Not mine. I own my life, and I'm driving this bus. AH, I will catch up on you soon- are you well? Must get back to work, but I will check in again later.
