Took w to the Al Anon meeting, left her to it and I went to mine. I'm glad she has decided to go it will help her, if she puts in the work.
As for 'One month for every year'? That's flexible. The mindset I have now is w will have to make the move. I will be DBing my a$$ off. But I will not be asking for any reconcilliation or instigate any R talk. I have just got to get on with my life and see what happens.
The door seems to have opened ever so slightly and she has to be the one to open it further and eventually open it fully. All I have got to do is stay the course.
W invited me to nieces bday (10) on Saterday, will all be going together. Heard about a camping weekend w, kids and w's brothers, sisters their partners and their kids are going on. Hoping for an invite and have asked d16 to put the idea up. I know I should just let the invite come but I can't help trying to help things along a bit.
