URGENT! OW had an abortion, H miserable

[ourcrisis]

one more thing.
I am feeling guilty myself because I actually have doubts
about the whole thing.
Is dh lying? I do not think so because there is no need to.
If he wanted to leave me, he could have done it long ago.
No need to create a fancy story.
Is OW lying? I feel bad doubting another human being
for something so serious. But at the same time, she's 34,
(took me almost a year to get pregnant before 30)
and I don't think they actually had sex that often, plus
PA turned into EA 2-3 months ago. It is just not very
credible. Was it OW's last attempt to hang on to h?
I feel being evil just to think about it, but should I?
There's no way to find out now. Dh totally believed it.