Hi Astimegoeson,

Remember your thought about her wanting to control you. This would be one of her methods. I am sure she wanted to solicit a reaction from you, even if it could not be good. I guess she finally notices you are not affected by her and she has contributed it to your change of heart for OW, so she is acting in extremes. I am sure it is not a deliberate decision. Don't give her the benefit of reacting to it.

Observation based on my own experiences as the psycho Woman for some time when my husband and I first separated.

You are right. I think part of it is because she thought you would wait for her to give it a try with OM and if it didn't work out to come back to you.

Take care and don't let her get to you.