I know it is hard to continue allowing him to sleep over, but you do not want to give him a reason to give up this M. Don't make him think he has gotten to the point of no return. Especially if he is having a MLC. He will snap out of it.
Thanks....I hope you are right! Just not sure if I can wait that long.
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As for allowing this sitch to become permanent, I think I would rather have the uncertainty that at any moment my H will return to me than to have him completely move out and file for D. That is what got me where I was. I was being too pushy and I am sure a lot of my actions caused resentment on his part, so he pushed back and file. Even if he wanted to continue, I am sure the OW would not allow it. In disciplining the child; Be the good cop. Let her be the bad cop.
Your words are really comforting. You are right and PATIENCE is what I need....and what I sorely lack! I know I shouldn't think about OW (have so many better words for her than OW but I guess I can't say them on this site.....) I could go on and on but I won't ....it's not productive. I really appreciate your point of view having gone through your sitch.
Me 36 ring on H 41 ring off S2 Together since 1992 Married: 2000 Bomb Aug 06 H moved out Oct 06 (and straight in with OW)
