Nicola ~ My h and I still have a joint account only difference is he deposits his paycheck yet doesn't use the debit card nor does he have a check book. The money he puts in is for me to pay our joint bills which include his truck payment. After a year you would think we would separate all this out. Hmmm ...the things we do.
Other than that I am not real sure on what to tell you to do. Maybe mention to him that you were over drawn and had to transfer money to get groceries and just say can I ask what you are using the money for?! It is still rightfully yours at least half of it.
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955