my e-mail address is: luckybub57@hotmail.com I explained to my h that I read something on the internet that I felt applied to us or rather to me about us. He said he wanted a copy of it. I read it to him and then he asked if he could keep the copy and that it sounded right. This is something he would never do before. It is very hard to stay away from or talks. I do continue to tell him I still care for him and really miss him (needy - sure am but he has seen I have been pretty independent these past weeks since he left). Which book are you talking about from Michelle? I know we are not supposed to put guilt on them for they already feel guilty - wouldn't the comment about the kids do that? I do like what you said and it is my belief also. I am desperate but am really working hard at being helpful. H has commented that he is not happier since he left he is worse. He said he has not found himself (another lost soul). I know I have to be his friend and it is pretty had not to feel sorry for him - depression is still lurking there. So is the ow (the sl_t). Sorry had to get that in there.
