Hope,

Thanks for stopping by; I know you are in a tough place yourself, so I really appreciate it.

The issue is twofold:

1 - Things will really be tight if I am relying solely on my own money.

2 - It would set a precedent if we ever went to court. I would want spousal support, and I know H would fight that. So I do not want to prove to him or the court that I can get by on a minimal amount. This item is actually my bigger concern.

The only real way to resolve this is to get a LS, which I didn't want to do. But now I'm thinking it may be my best option if I want to protect myself. In any case, I'll be waiting another month and then I will see what happens. H may decide to file himself.

Thanks again.


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