Update;
I had emergency at work, and was late coming home. Ds had gone to B ball game, W had waited on dinner, W S6 and I ate together.
During dinner W commented that I wasn't eating enough and looked like I was still loosing weight. "What do you weigh now? 150?"
This starts to sound positive, then "you look gaunt, unhealthy" I said thanks for worrying, but I am fine, I weigh 173 and havn't lost any weight in well over a month.

She added that I needed to eat more, well I was going to have more anyway, so I took some more and said "Just for you" I was joking, but she replied "don't do it for me' do it for yourself and who...." I got the distinct impression she was going to say "whoever else will be in your life. She said all of this with little more emotion then your mom telling you to finish your dinner.

Obviously I need to work on my detachment skills.


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Me 43, waw 44, 3 kids(D15,D12,S6)Married 19yr, together 27yr. Bomb 11/27/06, Separated 3/1/07 Divorce filed 4/18/07,

"Because it is in giving that we receive; In forgiving that we obtain forgiveness; In dying that we rise to eternal life" St. Francis