Sounds like she was testing the waters, do you think that she was trying to find out if there is any room in your life for her now? I get the feeling that she was waiting for you to tell her that the woman you are dating is not that important. Was she wanting you to say that you want to be more than friends?
I am not trying to give you false hope but sometimes woman don't say what they mean and she may be afraid of being rejected by you.
If it were me, I'd be taking this explanation with a grain of salt. I acknowledge there often exists a difference in communication styles between genders and for a man to have a heathly relationship with a woman, a basic understanding of girl-ese is necessary but in this example and even if it were accurate, would be an extremely disturbing low.
Imaging living with someone like that? Someone that is unable to express themselves without the use of unknown codes, where you had to tippy toe around hoping that your decipher was accurate, where you never knew where you stood, where you were expected to mind read and expected to do uncommunicated deeds because if you didn't, it was a sign that you were unsuitable.
No thanks. Time to clear the decks to make room for someone in your life that can communicate. Not all women are such poor communicators.
God Bless
Suit
"It's better to have no spouse than have a bad spouse"
