It's also important to keep in mind that FIL and MIL were the ones who encouraged me to kick W out of their house, which is where we were living at the time. Their promise not to support her was in that context, which is why getting the rug pulled out from under me has been such a big deal.
Anyway, I had a good visit with the in-laws last night and never got the right moment to bring this stuff up.
