I have a quick question that I need advice on before I do anything about it.

A few weeks ago, H took $5,000 out of our joint checking acct (almost all his bonus). He didn't tell me about it, but when I noticed and asked him, he said it was to put towards a car. He did this also in June (he gets two bonuses a year), but used the money to furnish his apt instead.

Today, I saw that last week, he spent $250 at Ikea. I want to ask him why he is taking money out of our checking acct to pay for stuff for his apt when he already took $5,000 out. We ended up overdrawn, and I had to transfer money from the line of credit to cover that and so I could buy groceries today. Tomorrow is payday.

Any ideas on how to approach this, or even if I should?

For those of you wondering why we still have a joint acct, it's b/c we are not legally S and I do not want to come to any monetary agreement w/o consulting a L.

Thank you!

Life isn't about finding yourself; it's about creating yourself
My thread: Trusting God's Plan