It's partly my nature to be a worry wort, which is something I've been working on changing. H never left and yes, we did sweep whatever may or may not have happened under the rug. All I know is during the bomb time in '03, H had a secret FF which I found out about. I suspect an EA but don't really know the extent of anything...The e-mail I don't really use anymore, so it's not really something for me to ask about. H started using it for his work as he does some work from home and I have my work e-mail. It's a 180 for me because one of the things I did before was bug him with questions like who did you eat lunch with today or who was at the meeting today, etc. By me not mentioning anything it is something different than past behavior. Small 180 for me but it's a step. Re: Valentine's Day - I was thinking of picking up dinner at H's favorite restaurant on my way home from work. We leave the following day for a short trip out of town so I will try to make the most of the trip. H isn't big on holidays esp. after his mlc so I don't want to go over the top. I bought 2 small gifts and a cute card...Thanks again, SP
According to the Buddha, praise and blame, gain and loss, pleasure and sorrow may "come and go like the wind," but happiness comes if you can "rest like a great tree in the midst of them all."
