I did I did- and I will be back tonight- have been following fig around the boards and now it's back to work time....boohoo stomp pout- HAHA I Love that! oh- quick update- 3 calls from H yesterday 1 email last week He's twirling in something.... magic money appeared in our savings account- I think he forgets it's still a joint account- I can see everything. not enough to bother with and blow my cover... Don't get excited, not good calls, he wants something, but I am still in the darkness...sadly, so are all his other friends...and they didn't even agonize over it for a year...(sigh)