Thanks COG - that's what I am doing (most of the time, although its hard)

Unfortunately, one of the reasons H "strayed" was because of his belief he was needed at home, so now I think I HAVE to be needy for him to stay. I know that is not the answer but it still plays on my mind. We are going for C so that is a BIG plus. H has a lot more issues that we originally thought - time, time, time

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)