Can my marriage be saved?

[Rosy_Times]

Hope, you and I are in the same boat. Alot of what you said, my H has said to me. My H is having an EA at work with old OW that he cheated on me with before we got married. My H doesn't want to fix things now but is scared of starting a new life without me. I am trying to be patient and pray that he will see the grass is not greener on the other side. Sex was always an issue between us; most recently actually but since he left, we've been having amazing sex so it was just a cover for the underlining issues. I'm not sure if my H is going through a MLC or not. He says he isn't but his dad just died in Oct so I believe that has something to do with it.
I would tell you to buy the books, read everything you can on this forum and then find sitchs that are similar to yours. Keep your chin up and don't dwell on the past but focus on yourself and make changes to yourself that you've always wanted to do. Keep me updated.