of course h comes back he wants 2 women pining on him....it allows him to sit on his merry little fence and have it all. Ehhh...wrong answer you deserve a life too. he certainly is having one at your expense.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
i call it male companionship...pick safe ones.....trust me if i could find a girlfriend to go skiig with i would.....i could try the same sex catergory..........
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
well guys its my b-day today....of course its bittersweet with no H......but I will get thru it ...going out to lunch ..so that will help
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
The first day of your new life where H doesn't make you strong or weak, happy or sad, valuable or unvaluable. Let this be the beginning of you slowly breaking away from the mess and getting on with some things that truly bring you joy.
I'd really like to win the lottery. Really would. It would make things so much easier. I buy a couple tickets each week just in case I would get lucky. But you know what? There are times I forget to even check my numbers. And I don't think about those tickets prior to the drawing, I just kind of carry them around in my wallet. Wondering if I win or not? Only when I'm actually checking the numbers. Doesn't occupy my thoughts, doesn't ruin my day if I lose, doesn't cause me anxiety in the days leading up to the drawing of the numbers.
Well...whether or not I ever have a life with my wife again is pretty damned close to being like whether or not I will ever win the lottery. So that's how I treat it now. I'm still carrying the "tickets" around inside, but I don't think about them everyday. I check them every once in awhile to see if I've won, but I don't get too worked up when I realize I haven't. And I don't spend the days paralyzed wondering whether or not I'm going to win. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't, well there is still a life out there I'm trying to live.
So happy birthday pws! I know you wish the circumstances were different, but this very well could be the beginning of something new and wonderful in the year ahead.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
I realized today I dont remember what his touch feels like....his kiss..his hugs...maybe thats a good sign....I sill get slammed and feel the pain like the vegas trip..the rest of the time, i think he has finally turned into someone i dont know. I havent gotten moving forward yet but maybe things are starting to fall into place for that.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Happy Birthday!!!! Enjoy your day as best you can.
Everything happens for a reason, maybe Dad needs to find that it isn't better out there, he needs to realize how good he had it here. Maybe he will find God and that is the most important thing when he finds Him he will know he is supposed to come home.
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Bill I think you are needed ASAP over at Mrsh's cyclone!!!!!!!!
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
