My H wants "a clean, neat house, meals at night after work ( he does cook often, is a great cook and loves to do it) declutter the house,but again it sees like you say running that no matter how long the changes last or what they are there will be something else for him to focus on..maybe the coffee pot left on, lights left on.....A little history about me....three years ago when I had my son by ceserean section, my bladder was cut in half during the procedure, I was an RN working until that time. I almost lost my life that day and it has taken me literally two years to feel somewhat better. I still have cognitive issues (memory loss, recall problems) from the massive blood loss I sustained at that time. I have continual pain and a neurogenic bladder. I take multiple medications, never took meds before this. This has affected the M, my ability to function as before, I have less tolerance and endurance. In addition I have a child with Autism who I have immersed myself into....
