Nicola sweetie I so know how you feel. When I am nice to my h it seems he is short and angry but if I stick up for myself a little and put up my boundaries then he is back to being nice.
I also wonder ALOT if the reason my h is being nice to me is so he doesn't get screwed in the D. He already has said he thinks I am trying to take advantage of him so I can live and easy life while he is broke for the rest of his. WHATEVER. I always heard being a single Mom was EASY!
I think you are doing the right thing and looking out for you and taking care of you.
Much love to you! Christy
Christy M: 31 H: 33 Married ~ 13 years S12 S8 Bomb 10/05 supposedly ended A 2nd bomb 12/30/05 Separated 01/06 I filed 6/12/07 ~ new ow 3wks after moving out http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1094955&page=0#Post1094955
