I definitely agree with what you posted last. And the question you ask yourself is very good.

The bottom line is if and when you're ready to leave, you will. I don't think it's a mistake to keep working on this, and I don't think it's a mistake to bail. Either one could be a very good decision. Also making no decision and going with the flow is good, too.

I just listened to an entire Byron Katie audiobook "Loving What Is" and I'm feeling very in tune with my life.