Continuing the thought process here. I'm wondering whether an option might be to tell her I'm making an appointment with the counsellor and ask if she'd like to come. If not, ask her how it is that previously she said she would go but now, will not. What has changed? If she still is unwilling then I will go for the appointment and discuss the next step. I'm thinking maybe it's time to say "I'm letting go" and give her the space she needs. I would suggest I move into a spare bedroom, we separate the finances by both keeping separate bank accounts and contributing whatever is needed to the family pot for bills etc. I would suggest we sit down and talk to the children about what is happening. I then let go and live my life as best I can. That could be the next step. I'm tired of f@cking around. Something must change and I can't live my life waiting for someone who does not want to be part of it. She needs to recognize that the status quo is ending. Again just some thoughts before BR dance 2 lesson 4 Cha cha cha
