An examples is, I don't turn on the light at night when I go to the bathroom, the dog walks in front of me, I almost step on the dog and someone make some noise in the process. BB thinks I am too lazy to turn on the light, but I didn't turn on the light because it disturbs her. Looks like a double lose.
Problem solved. No more getting up w/o turning on a light.
The problem is that you are trying to please her rather than just being the naturally courteous man that you are. Subtle difference but very important. I think BF would advise you to just say "Hush woman and go back to sleep.". I would advise you just to think it.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
