I'm pleased it's not just me then. We've had a couple of little disagreements and like you I have felt more confident after them - it's like until you've had that first row its not quite real and you think they'll leave if you have one.
I'm not surprised you feel a little cautious coming up to the anniversary of the bomb. I keep wondering myself how I'll feel when we get to that day and also if things will be completely fixed by then or not.