Hi Mama I'm glad OT showed up because she's leading you the right direction with this. Absolutely you shouldn't feel bad or guilty or wrong because your H is angry about you bringing up this subject. Please don't allow him to intimidate you with that anger and sweep these issues under the rug. It's a cheeseless tunnel for your M. Like OT said, you deserve someone who will talk with you and work out problems and be open and honest. If your H is throwing a tantrum, shifting blame, or threatening to abandon the R, then you have hit a sore spot that needs to be explored further.
I'm glad OT showed up because she's leading you the right direction with this. Absolutely you shouldn't feel bad or guilty or wrong because your H is angry about you bringing up this subject. Please don't allow him to intimidate you with that anger and sweep these issues under the rug. It's a cheeseless tunnel for your M. Like OT said, you deserve someone who will talk with you and work out problems and be open and honest. If your H is throwing a tantrum, shifting blame, or threatening to abandon the R, then you have hit a sore spot that needs to be explored further.
