Well since H thinks I am controlling the obvious 180 would be to not control. Easier said than done. I never was controlling before, never questioned H about anything, but that was when I trusted him completely.
He broke that trust in Oct. 05 when the bomb was dropped. I have been Db'ing for 15 months and things seem to finally be progressing but we are still not there yet. It is hard not to wonder where he is and who he is with because of course, my mind immediately thinks he is with OW.
If I didn't want to know his whereabouts, to me that would seem like I didn't care.
The need to stop complaining is a valid one, I tend to complain about EVERYTHING. Again, I have issues and need to resolve them.
