OK - my take - and bear in mind I don't knwo your whole sitch, why you go bombed etc. All I al going on is what's in this post. How about a 180? You say you've always complained at H, and in the talk that's what you did. I can totally sympathise with wantnig thins resolved right away, I am the same but sometimes it does me no favours. You have made it clear to H that you would like more consideration if he decides to go out, and yes I agree with that. I like my H to tell me if he's going to be late, no so I can object (he often has a quick drink with his brother after going to the gym) but just so I KNOW so I'm not sitting there at 10pm thinking "I hope he's OK". But H sees this as control - mine used to as well. So how about a 180? What could that be?
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
